ok。well。it's time to say goodbye。
I don't love you anymore。
If you hate me。I don't care。as you like。
However。I wish you will find your own happiness。
After。we belonged together once。
够不够?
最后一句是After all。
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1、夕阳送你登程,风儿送你远行,留下的是彩霞晚空。你何时归来,月下窗前,双双成影?
Sunset sent you on a journey, and send you away, leaving the night sky clouds. When you return, under the window, both the shadow?
2、前者或许还又重逢的可能,但后者却此生此世永难相见了!有时候越怕别离,别离就在眼前,越想挽留反而失去的更快。
The former may also meet again, but the latter is the life of this life will never be difficult to meet! Sometimes the more afraid of parting, parting in the eyes, the more you want to retain but lose faster.
3、思忆常会在夜静灯昏时翻开甜酸苦辣也成了一道最凄美的风景线,陈旧的美无法在代谢中泯灭。
Siyi often at dead of night, the light faint opened the sweets and bitters of life has become a most beautiful scenery line, old beauty cannot in the metabolism of devoid.
4、浮云一别后,流水十年间。欢笑情如旧,萧疏鬓已斑。
The clouds parted, water ten years. Love laughter as the old, the temples have been spotted.
5、没有一个完全契合你的人,没有一段完美无缺的感情。大家合不合适,大家完不完美,都需要双方有所付出,有所牺牲,彼此去创造。
There is not a perfect fit for you, not a perfect relationship. We do not fit, we do not perfect, we need to have to pay both sides, and some sacrifice, to create each other.
6、你当我是个风筝,要不把我放了,要不然收好带回家,别用一条看不见的情思拴着我,让我心伤。
You when I was a kite, or to let me go, or else receive a good home, don't use a look see emotions and thoughts tied with me, let me heartache.
7、我们徜徉过的小树林,我们观赏过的蓝色黄色粉红色的花朵,一切的一切,仍然依旧。你什么时候回来,我们一起再同游?
We have been wandering through the woods, we have seen the blue and yellow pink flowers, everything, is still the same. What time will you come back, we'll get together with?
8、有些失去是注定的,有些缘分是永远不会有结果的.爱一个人不一定会拥有,拥有一个人就一定要好好去爱她。
Some lost is doomed, some fate is never a result of love a person does not necessarily have, have a person must be good to love her.
A day at the mid-night, the boy rides a motorcycle to take a girl to exceed the speed limit to drive, They love deeply each other, Girl:"A little bit slower。
I am afraid。" Boy:"Not, this is very interesting。
." Girl:"Beg you。This frightenned a person too。
" Boy:"All right, that you say you love me。" Girl:"Good。
.I love you。Can you slow down now?" Boy:"Tight hug I once。
" The girl embraced each other him tightly and tightly once, girl:"You can slow down now?" Boy:"You can take off my helmet combine does oneself put on?It makes me feeling uncomfortable, returning interference me to drive a car." On the second day, news***** report way:A motorcycle bumps and destroys on a building because the brake is out of order, there are two people on the car, a death, a luckily survive。 The boy, who drive, knows the brake is out of order, but he didn't let the girl know, will let the girl feel to harm because of that afraid. Contrary, he lets the last time the girl say she loved him, the last time embraced each other him, and let her put on an own 盔 , result, the girl was on the hoof, he died by himself。
In time of a short while, in the common life, the love displayed a myth toward us。 一天夜里,男孩骑摩托车带着女孩快速行驶。
女孩:“慢一点。我怕。”
男孩:“不,这样很有趣。.” 女孩:“求求你。
这样太吓人了。” 男孩:“好吧,那你说你爱我。”
女孩:“好。.我爱你。
你现在可以慢下来了吗?” 男孩:“紧紧抱我一下。”女孩紧紧拥抱了他一下,女孩:“现在你可以慢下来了吧?” 男孩:“你可以脱下我的头盔并自己戴上吗?它让我感到不舒服,还干扰我驾车。
” 第二天,报纸报道:一辆摩托车因为刹车失灵而撞毁在一幢建筑物上,车上有两个人,一个死亡,一个幸存。 驾车的男孩突然发现刹车失灵,但他没有让女孩知道,因为那样会让女孩感到害怕。
相反,他让女孩最后一次说她爱他,最后一次拥抱他,并让她戴上自己的头盔,结果,女孩活着,他自己死了。 就在一会儿的时间里,就在平常的生活里,爱向我们展示了一个神话.。
The most painful distance in the worldThe furthest distance in the world is not the end of the world, not the Cape, is the soul of the distance. When two once close to the heart no longer feel the warmth, love will come to an end. If there are one thousand reasons to give up on you, but only one reason to love you, but this is the only reason than the one thousand reasons, it is: love only once. So, can we continue the story?There are a number of stories that may have been over for the end of the story. Too late to smile, but also too late to wave, we would like to bid farewell to the. If not, why meet joy; if there is fate, why meet me? It is fate, after the rush to meet you and I turned that into a stranger, to become the most familiar stranger. I know love will not have results, knowing that love will have a heartache, unluckily so put so seriously.There is a voice, never need to remember, but never forget; there is a concern, never have to look for, but never lost; there is a yearning, never nostalgia, but will never stop. Perhaps not really had no lost. Walk on the edge of love and pain, finally consider alone a cup of wine, drunk in the dream to wake up in a dream.Really love someone, maybe just a year's time, but want to miss you, I'm afraid the whole life is not enough? The once spent good time, once once wet my eyes to the truth, once meet the vision of a better future, how can forget?I only forever, never touched, never miss. You know, is the most fortunate in my life; cherish you, I never change the original intention; I leave you, is the most helpless decision. People say there are three: preexistence and afterlife. If I may not be together, I hope the afterlife, then I will be me, you will be you?I will still keep you in no place waiting for you, will still keep you when you don't know what time you think of you; it is the sweetest pain. Stick your face in my chest, the tears already infiltrated my sleeve, you and I were silent for a long time, should not say you finally said that exports, after you turn left to embrace, I smiled and said goodbye, the heart but trembling, I have no courage to ask why you leave, want to say love you have for a long time can I never, only blame himself did not grasp your hand。
Lost you I know how important you are, now that regret is useless, heart although the pain, only themselves to blame hadn't love unsaid, and now want to say love you have to find an excuse, after losing you I breathe or unpleasant. The furthest distance in the world, is not your indifference that you have not mind, but you let go, I will always live in regret, can not forget!The furthest distance in the world, I would not live in regret, can not forget, but you always don't understand my sorrow, I don't understand the lonely heart! The furthest distance in the world is not that you don't understand my sorrow, do not understand my loneliness, but I even pain, also can not cry. Now I to you, also is just a stranger, walk in the rain, you are not in my heart。
中文意思: 世上最心痛的距离 世界上最遥远的不是天涯,不是海角,是心灵的距离。
当两颗曾经贴近的心灵再也感觉不到温暖时,爱情便走到了尽头。如果有一千个理由可以放弃你,而只有一个理由继续深爱着你,可是这唯一的理由胜过那一千个理由,它就是:真爱只有一次。
那么,我们的故事还可以继吗? 有一些故事,也许还未开始就已经永远地结束了。来不及微笑,也来不及挥手,我们就这样匆匆地告别了。
若说无缘,为何相遇相知相悦;若说有缘,为何缘聚缘散缘灭?若非是天意弄人,你我匆匆地相逢之后转身即成陌路,沦为最熟悉的陌生人。明明知道爱了不会有结果,明明知道爱过才会有心痛,偏偏又那么投入那么认真。
有一种声音,从来不必想起,却永远都不会忘记;有一种关怀,从来不必寻找,却永远都不会失去;有一种思念,从来不必留恋,却永远都不会停止。或许没有真正拥有过,也就无所谓失去。
走在爱与痛的边缘,独自斟酌最后一杯酒,醉在梦里也醒在梦里。 真正爱上一个人也许只要一年的时间,但要怀念你,恐怕用尽这一生也不够?那曾经一起度过的美好时光,曾经一度湿润我眼眸的真心话,曾经相约未来的美好憧憬,怎能淡忘? 我只有永远的珍藏,永远的感动,永远的怀念。
认识你,是我今生最大的幸运;珍惜你,是我从未改变的初衷;离开你,是我最无奈的决定。都说人有三生:前世今生和来世。
如果此生不得相守,我期望来生,到那时,我还会是我,你还会是你吗? 我依然会守在你不出现的地方等你,依然会守在你不知道的时间想你;等你,想你,便是最甜蜜的心痛。你的脸贴在我胸口,泪水早已渗透了我的衣袖,你我都沉默了许久,不该说的话你终于说出口,拥抱过后你转身就走,我笑着说再见心却在颤抖,我已没有勇气问你离开的理由,想说声爱你已很久可我从来都没有,只怪自己当初没有抓紧你的手…… 失去了。
拉伊奥斯年轻时曾经劫走国王佩洛普斯(Pelops)的儿子克律西波斯(Chrysippus),因此遭到诅咒,他的儿子俄狄浦斯出生时,神谕表示他会被儿子所杀死,为了逃避命运,拉伊奥斯刺穿了新生儿的脚踝(oidipous在希腊文的意思即为肿胀的脚),并将他丢弃在野外等死。
然而奉命执行的牧人心生怜悯,偷偷将婴儿转送给科林斯(Corinth)的国王波吕波斯(Polybus),由他们当作亲生儿子般地扶养长大。俄狄浦斯长大后,因为德尔菲(Delphi)神殿的神谕说,他会弑父娶母,不知道科林斯国王与王后并非自己亲生父母的俄狄浦斯,为避免神谕成真,便离开科林斯并发誓永不再回来。
俄狄浦斯流浪到忒拜附近时,在一个叉路上与一群陌生人发生冲突,失手杀了人,其中正包括了他的亲生父亲。当时的忒拜被狮身人面兽斯芬克斯(Sphinx)所困,因为他会抓住每个路过的人,如果对方无法解答他出的谜题,便将对方撕裂吞食。
忒拜为了脱困,便宣布谁能解开谜题,从斯芬克斯口中拯救城邦的话,便可获得王位并娶国王的遗孀约卡斯塔为妻。后来正是由俄狄浦斯解开了斯芬克斯的谜题,解救了忒拜。
他也继承了王位,并在不知情的情况下娶了自己的亲生母亲为妻,生了两女:分别是安提戈涅(Antigone)及伊斯墨涅(Ismene);两个儿子:埃忒奥克洛斯(Eteoclus)及波吕涅克斯(Polyneices)。后来,受俄狄浦斯统治的国家不断有灾祸与瘟疫,国王因此向神只请示,想要知道为何会降下灾祸。
最后在先知提瑞西阿斯(Tiresias)的揭示下,俄狄浦斯才知道他是拉伊奥斯的儿子,终究应验了他之前杀父娶母的不幸命运。震惊不已的约卡斯塔羞愧地上吊自杀,而同样悲愤不已的俄狄浦斯,则刺瞎了自己的双眼。
=====================================自恋情结narcissism自恋(narcissism)一词最早出现于欧美文学作品中,直译成汉语是水仙花。它来自于一个凄美的古希腊神话:美少年那西斯在水中看到自己的倒影,便爱上了自己,每天茶饭不思,憔悴而死,变成了一朵花,后人称之为水仙花。
精神病学家、临床心理学家借用这个词,用以描绘一个人爱上自己的现象。
恋母情结:mothercomplex,Oedipuscomplex:自恋:[zìliàn]1.narcissism2.self-love。
恋母情结Oedipuscomplex好象是有个叫Oedipus的人因为喜欢自己的母亲,而杀了自己的父亲。
自恋情结narcissism有个叫Narcissi的人,非常喜欢自己在水里的倒影。
恋母情结(Oedipuscomplex)又称伊谛普斯情结。
原义是指男孩亲母仇父的复合情绪。后统指幼儿对异性父母的依恋、亲近,而对同性父母的嫉妒和仇恨等复合情绪。
相传古希腊神话,伊谛普斯王子因应验一个神喻,无意杀死生父,娶母为妻。弗洛伊德借此论证儿童性心理的特征。
认为儿童在在性器期(35岁)男孩出现恋母妒父的情绪,潜意识中想取代父亲独占母亲的爱,但因父亲比自己更强大有力,故心理上常以父亲自居,极力模仿父亲的行为和态度。到了青春期,这种冲动还会出现。
直到有了性爱对象才会解决。如不能很好地解决就会成为未来神经症的根源。
理性和感情对立的典型,我和我原女友也这样,我以强烈的责任感维持着我们的关系,但最终和你一样,无法长期忍受她的很多不足而分手,但这时长期的共同相处使得对她已产生了亲情的感觉。
一方面觉得很难在一起生活的轻松、快乐。但又有太多放不下的过去(或者说是一种习惯的感觉),很是难受,对新的感情打不起精神来。
作为一个女孩子,你应该算是一个理智型的了。你的分手决定应该是正确的,也是极负勇气的。
其是不是因为爱太累,而是你顾虑得太多,你理智,但也同时重感情,对婚姻期望的很完美。不想自己同样再去经历一次过去的情形。
所以这次选择和交往时就顾虑很多,总想在最短的时间准确的认识他,确定是否合适,再决定是否付出你的全部真情。 但这种带着过多顾虑的“挑选”很多时候让自己很谜失和压抑。
我和新女友的交往中往往也有这种感觉,但有时想想,我现在都发现了她的什么大缺点了?还没有,反而比我过去的女友好得多,但为什么我不能像过去那样投入。思其根愿,像我们这号理智型的人,经历了就失去了原有的那份纯真了,不想犯同样的错误,多少有些防备心理,所以老是觉得自己不在状态。
努力调整下,会觉得好很多,让你的朋友。亲人帮你参谋,参谋,大家都评价好的话,你会感觉认可很多,当你抛开其他顾虑,和他在一起时,你觉得快乐吗,他懂你的心吗,如果是,就全身心投入进去吧,你会幸福的,因为我知道越是经历过就越知道什么是值得珍惜的。
You will always be a part of me (你将永远是我的一部分)You will always be my history (你将永远是我的经历)每段往事 锻链我心智 故事通通变历史即使 喜欢你谁亦不知You will always be a part of me (你将永远是我的一部分)You will let me to my destiny (你将我导向我的命运?)#这句我实在看不懂,语法也不对#每段往事 锻链我心智 故事通通变历史分手都会有层次 即使失去爱 还有睿智。
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