As it is known, when we are in high school, we all have a constant goal that is to get the entrance to college, and hard work is out of question for the following. So we gain the notice to college finally which we often dream of in the nights, which proves a proverb that the god doesn't live up to someone who spends time and efforts, please memorize the sentence for good.Of course one day we went to college in August or September happily and proudly, but at the same time something happened that it made your heart pounding fiercely next, by the way, that is love for many college students. And then they miss the directions and their selves as well for their lives. Next I am to express that I am neutral for falling in love in college, however I have some ideas to illustrate of my own.Firstly, if you are passers-by, I think we will find a lot about several couples of boyfriends and girlfriends under the dorms or dim corners or in the classes without anybody for close postures, as youngsters, it is normal without asking cause about that.Secondly, even worth mentioning is that many young boys and girls couldn't attend classes and courses instead of traveling to some sceneries and sight places or doing other things only to turn out them loved each other temporarily./ Thirdly, especially to most of freshmen, please don't be influenced by the phenomenon that a number of students who finds anther half called by them selves proudly, because I think persons are different from each other, different characters, backgrounds and aims.But there is one point to obey if you actually want to have an attempt the feeling for love at first sight: it is , whenever you and I am, the learning and the work is the most principle rather than love is the first and work second, for we aren't children and teenagers anymore, in the future society needs a comprehensive qualifications, profound and extensive knowledge persons, meanwhile in college you are in the state of half foot to society which time is a most important process to exercise and experience before stepping to complicated and complex society, and therefore we are supposed to spend much time in learning instead.What are mentioned above are only my opinions, believing that others have more perfect for falling in love in college.。
Marriage is a gamble. I may have a wife whose personality corresponds to mine but I also may have a wife who only cares about herself and can't tolerate my shortcomings. if my wife is the latter kind, quarrels will become routine. It is not warmth and love that fill the home, but eternal complaints and even hatred divorce will become the only thing that can put an end to our mutual bitterness.
I will do my best to make my marriage a happy one. Although I may feel depressed and discouraged, I will spare no effort maintain a happy marriage. I will choose my wife based not only on appearance but also on character. After we get married, I will tolerate her weaknesses and appreciate her strength. I will show more concern, affection and love for her than she shows for me. Marriage is a gamble, but we still have a chance of winning a big prize.
As it is known, when we are in high school, we all have a constant goal that is to get the entrance to college, and hard work is out of question for the following. So we gain the notice to college finally which we often dream of in the nights, which proves a proverb that the god doesn't live up to someone who spends time and efforts, please memorize the sentence for good.Of course one day we went to college in August or September happily and proudly, but at the same time something happened that it made your heart pounding fiercely next, by the way, that is love for many college students. And then they miss the directions and their selves as well for their lives. Next I am to express that I am neutral for falling in love in college, however I have some ideas to illustrate of my own.Firstly, if you are passers-by, I think we will find a lot about several couples of boyfriends and girlfriends under the dorms or dim corners or in the classes without anybody for close postures, as youngsters, it is normal without asking cause about that.Secondly, even worth mentioning is that many young boys and girls couldn't attend classes and courses instead of traveling to some sceneries and sight places or doing other things only to turn out them loved each other temporarily./Thirdly, especially to most of freshmen, please don't be influenced by the phenomenon that a number of students who finds anther half called by them selves proudly, because I think persons are different from each other, different characters, backgrounds and aims.But there is one point to obey if you actually want to have an attempt the feeling for love at first sight: it is , whenever you and I am, the learning and the work is the most principle rather than love is the first and work second, for we aren't children and teenagers anymore, in the future society needs a comprehensive qualifications, profound and extensive knowledge persons, meanwhile in college you are in the state of half foot to society which time is a most important process to exercise and experience before stepping to complicated and complex society, and therefore we are supposed to spend much time in learning instead.What are mentioned above are only my opinions, believing that others have more perfect for falling in love in college.。
Since September this year, the college students are now allowed to get married in campus, which is declared officially by the National Education Bureau. The results of this issue take a broad influence on the colleges, even on the whole society. Some are in favor of it while some are against it. Whether college students should be allowed to set up a family has become a hot topic to be fiercely argued from then on. Some believe it is reasonable for college students to select marriage in campus. Because, firstly, the college students have reached the national legal ages, 22 for men and 20 for women, for marriage. Secondly, suppose two students are fall in love with each other. Is it necessary for them to struggle to avoid marriage until graduation? The couples are supposed to help each other, love each other and conduct the harmonious little family on their own. All the matters they are faced with will not only help them taste sweet produced by family but also get to know the hardness to sustain a family. Furthermore, college students are usually to be found living together. Such behavior has no difference from those done after marriage. We should rather legalize such behavior than put aside them to happen secretly. However, some think it more negative then positive for college students to get married on campus. In their opinion, the college students, especially male students, are too young and semi-matured to be likely to shoulder the burdens brought by family and take the relative responsibility. On the other hand, it is showed by study that the devoice rate of those who get married early is much higher than that of those who get married late or at right time. Such high devoice rate is mainly due to the less consideration taken before marriage, even being a totally prompt impulse to some extent. Some stubborn problem appears gradually after marriage, which leads to the mutual discontents between couples and end up in devoice as a solution. It that case, I think, with more supports from parents and society, we can cope with study and love more intellectually if we ideally balance the positive and the negative caused by marriage on campus. 国家教育局正式通过从今年9月份开始,在校大学生可以在校结婚了.这个事件在学校乃至社会上引起了很大的反响,有赞成的,也有反对的,大学生能不能结婚已经成为一个热门的话题被大家激烈的讨论。
有些人认为大学生结婚是理所当然的。因为,首先,大学生已经达到了国家法定的结婚年龄,国家法定的结婚年龄是男生22,女生20; 其次,既然大家彼此相爱,何必非要等到大学毕业以后呢?结婚以后大家互相扶持,相亲相爱,共同经营这个温馨的小家,可以让两个人早点体验到家庭的温暖与一份持家的艰辛,也未尝不是一件好事啊;再者,现在大学生同居并不鲜见,其实很已与结婚生活无异。
与其背地里偷偷摸摸,倒不如为这种生活正名,使其合法化。 当然,也有一些人认为大学生结婚弊大于利。
他们认为,虽然大学生可能到了法定的结婚年龄,但是毕竟还年轻,心智还不健全,这么早结婚可能不能够背负成立家庭以后带来的负担和承担自己应服的责任,尤其是男方。另外,根据研究表明,早婚人群的离婚率远远高于晚婚和适龄结婚的人群。
这主要是因为他们在结婚之前有欠考虑,完全是一时冲动,结婚以后问题渐渐暴露出来了,变现为对对方的不满,到最后到了难以容忍的地步就只有离婚能解决问题了。 我认为,只要权衡好这之间的利与弊,。
My views of Matrimony (wedding/marriage)
Matrimony is the important to all people's life, two people need to make a full psychological and material preparations.
After all, Matrimony is a new life begin, a lot of things can not be the same as pre-marital free,
And then, the choice will congsidering some elements, Marriage is easy, divorce is also easy, you must be discreet, Matrimony means you choose to take care of parents, kids, wife and husband more and more.
From now on, you are not only thinking yourself. You have to take on the responsible for this family, in particular, the relation between husband and wife.it will be influence to your family's harmony directly. Some researchers say that, true love may only three years, the family love will remaining so many years, because of this feeling is built up the responsibility and affection.
In modern times, many people had less responsibility and more like to enjoy. So, the proportion of divorces increased significantly.
Actually both spouses must learn to share the obligations, try to learning the way you treat to your lover, especially in housework。
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中文原版:
婚姻是一辈子的事,两个人都需要做好充分的心理准备和物质准备。
首先、婚姻生活是一个新生活的开始,很多事情不能像婚前一样自由,
而且、在选择问题上也需考虑清楚一些因素,结婚很容易,离婚更容易,
一定要慎重考虑,结婚意味着要照顾对父母、孩子、家庭~
你已经不再为自己生活了。你得对这个家负责,特别是夫妻间的关系,
直接影响到自己和家人的幸福。有学者说,所谓爱情真正的只有三年,而亲情却可以持续很多年,因为这是依靠责任和逐步建立起来的。
现代社会,不少人都少了责任,多了享受。所以离婚比例在大幅上升。
所以、夫妻双方必须要学着共同打理义务,试着学会与你伴侣的好的相处方式,尤其在家务事上。
Love is everywhere nowadays,it's popular,including on the campus,between the
young boys and girls.
It's a new sight of the campus and some people are
against the lovers for many reasons,the students are too young, they are not
responsible for what they have done,they destroy the good atmosphere of the
campus,some students disturb the others,and so on.I agree, but on the other hand
I don't think we can do too much about it.First of all, love is our human
nature,nobody can stop it,we can only cover it for a while at the
most.Secondly,it's not necessary to forbid the lovers,they are experiencing one
part of life,they are earlier,though.Everyone will have the same experience
sooner or later.I think the only thing we can do is to make sure the young
lovers will not disturb the others too much,in fact ,self-cultivation is the
point.Of couse we can make some rules to push the students who are in love to be
on their good behaviour or make them pay enough attention to their
study.Actually to love is their choice,so is to study hard.
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我对在校大学生结婚问题的看法
目前,在校大学生能否结婚成为一个热点问题,谈谈你对在校大学生结婚问题的看法,要求:1.有些人持反对意见。2.有些人表示支持。3.我的看法……[参考范文] It is a new thing that Chinese on-campus college students are legally allowed to get married before they complete their courses. Many people applaud / welcome this new development while others have expressed their concern about this. Those who take sides against this new trend believe that college students will inevitably have less time and energy for their academic life because married students have more real-life problems to deal with than those unmarried ones. One common argument, however, for on-campus college students' marriage is that a number of students do have a desire for an ideal marriage. Now that they have come of age, they are entitled to such happiness. Of the two views discussed above, I'm in favor of the former. My reason is that on-campus students are laden with academic tasks. If one gets married now, he or she has to work much harder than any other student because they have to solve their financial problems at the same time. As a married couple, for instance, they are suppos
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As we know that senior middle school is not allowed romance, because our parents and teachers think that study is the most important thing for us. Almost major of them hold the idea that college romance maymakeabad influence to our study. Once we enter the college there are no constraints .We are supposed to balance our study and personal life.
There are different kinds of love on campus. Some students regard love as killing time or adding color; some are pragmatic, thinking it's difficult to find a better partner after graduation; the purpose of others is for seeking the impetus of study.
Anyhow, far away from home and alone, seeking friendship, understanding and love, the boys and girls easily find comfort and appreciation from eachother. As a mater of fact, love is a sharp double-bladed knife. Having it will make you very happy; while losing it, you always feel disappointed and depressed. When the bond of love broken, it's difficult for someone to get out of the shadow especially for girls .
However,we are young,we have
First,they are not mature enough to distinguish true love from liking.The personality of a college student is in a transform so it is not steady.
And they rarely know what they really expect in a marriage.Thus you are likely to find that the girl to whom you take a liking at your first meeting can not make a satisfying wife.Second,there is no pocketbook to enable them to support a family.Since they are still under-gratuated,they can not find a job to earn enough money to maintain the marriage.If they can not afford the rent of a house and other expense in daily life,will their marriage go on?Third,marriage will surely distract them from their study.
From all above,we will easily come to the conclusion that college students had better not get married.
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